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| The logic of Falling in Love |
| by Anthony Saint Iyke |
THE LOGIC OF FALLING IN LOVE!!!
How many of us have ever stopped to consider how we fall in love?
Without frying to encompass this mysterious phenomenon, let us try to surface some of its Xteristics. There is leap out of self towards the other person. There is a desire to encounter the love & participate in a mutual going and receiving system of love.
The only love worthy of a name is unconditional: “The greatest happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved- loved for ourselves, or rather loved in spite of ourselves”. As the mutual going or receiving continue in the events of happiness, someone and every day activity, our reasons for Entering into this (Love) greatest of all adventure be comes clearer.
What happened in the beginning that led me (Anthony Saint Iyke,) to initiate this adventure? Is the course of the mystery of love?
“The moment you have your Heart, this extra ordinary thing called love, and feel the depth, the delight, the ecstasy of it, you will discover that for you the world is transformed. So in love the Heart surrenders itself entirely to the one being known how to touch it. That being is not selected but recognized and obeyed” Where love rules, there is no will to power and where power, pre-dominate there love is lacking – one becomes the shadow of the other.
We fall in love, only later we are able to say. “ How much do I love you” let me (Anthony Saint Iyke) comes the ways.
The magic of first love is ignorance that it can never end: “you come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing the imperfect person perfectly. Love never dies a Natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness of withering of tarnishing. Love is a precious Plant – You’ve got to keep watering it. You’ve got really look after it and nature it. There is no greater invitation to love than loving first.
We fall in love by the outreach of our encounter Intuition: which means our intelligence, aided by our will and emotions that Leeds us to a final conclusion: "I will be open to love and encounter” – without explicitly going through the intermediate step for doing so. Human Hearts operates differently; it is, open to adventure and romance and is willing to leap out surprises toward the other person: “The love we give away is the only love we keep. There is nothing more important in life than love”.
The logic of love and encounter Intuition must now becomes operational: -Bernard Longeran terms: if human psyche is slow in motion, then we see that, it is doing over four operations.
Experiencing-: understanding- judging – Deciding.
You could remember in the bible, when God stops the sum in the sky, to be, on to give Joshua more time to defeat the Amorites. If I could ask God one thing. It will be to stop the moon. And make the love dreams & beauty of every body to last 4ever…
Firstly we experience God liturgy or a scriptural passage, we try 2 understand the significance of it. Then we judge if what we have learnt, if its important or interesting, we decide weather we want more of it or less of it or even non of it.
The important thing is that we pay attention 2 it in our heart, body & soul.
You experience love -- u try 2 understand the real meaning of love, then Judge if the person loves you or not, or if the relationship is interesting or not. Lastly you decide whether you want more of the love or less of it or even non-of it.
St. Augustine said – no love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it 4 ever. Love is like the truth, sometimes it prevails, and sometimes it hurts.
It is wrong 2 think that love comes from long companionship and preserving courtship. Love is the off spring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations.
Miracles occur naturally as expression of love. The real miracle is the love that inspires them. In this sense every thing that comes from love is Miracle.
So then nothing takes the taste of a peanut butter quite like unrequited love. Love is everything you’ve got you and receive. So try 2 loves with the heart, body & soul.
Try and believe in love is all got. You just cross the engraving stone by loving your neighbour. Don’t kill Love is our means of life… Anthony Saint Iyke. |
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