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| What are the odds? |
| by Prty Eyz |
Some say there is no such thing as Love at first sight. Well I beg to differ on that.
I met my Love actually way before I even knew who he was.
It was July of 2000 and I was out and about with my friends. Of course being 4th of July weekend there are tons of people out. So we all decided to go to a local bar that always had great dance music. I hadn't a care in the world about finding someone to date as I had just gotten out of a dead end relationship with my daughters father.
But then it happened,
I looked across the room and there he was. I was in total awe with this man. I leaned over to my best friend and asked her who he was. She said, "you have no chance he is married" talk about a ton of bricks to the chest!
I thought oh well, but I never forgot that time nor him.
About a year later, still battling with the dating scene, I still had it in my head that there was just no chance for me to meet anyone that even came close to what I was wanting and needing in my life. I figured it would be me and my daughter alone forever-which is not a bad thing-but everyone needs someone I believe. But then my chance came about.
My brother called me and told me about this wonderful man he worked with that was looking for a nice person that was into the family life and was not about games. Okay,I figured what did I have to lose?
So we began emailing one another, found out we were very similar! Both had kids, he loved his kids more than anything like I do my daughter. We viewed life the same way and we both seeked the same things. It was wonderful!
Then I asked to see what he looked like cause I had to put a face with all the wonderful talks and emails. It had been a couple weeks since we had been chatting and I was really wanting to know.
So I got the picture-and I about fell off my chair. Once I opened up the attachment and seen this man I had been talking to I could not believe what I saw. It was him, the guy that caught my attention over a year ago!
Instantly I told him about that night and he could not believe it. What are the odds that the guy I seen that night would be the same guy that was interested in dating me now? I knew it was meant to be after that.
Now, some 10 months later we are still going strong. We had a couple times of trial as most if not all couple do. But we always talk things out and let one another know how we feel.
Communication is the key!
I know in my heart he is the one I am going to marry and I would tomorrow if he asked.
Everything about him is everything I have searched for plus more and I thank God for giving me my soul mate...
When I look at him I feel so at ease and so complete. Never before has a person come into my life that fit all the things I have always wanted..until him..
Never ever doubt finding that perfect person you have been searching so hard for. It happens in time and most the time it happens when you least expect it to, or how you expect it to. |
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